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Your life seems to be going well and it will continue to go well as long as you allow it.

" Don't give them the impression they have a chance if they don't.

I couldn't stop thinking of her for a long time, 6 years, and was heart broken.

A male reader, anonymous, writes 22 May 2008 : Everyones situation is different.

Good luck to you and always be true to yourself.

You will find your answers.

A female reader, anonymous, writes 1 January 2008 : Its sad, that you passed on love years ago, something must have triggered her to contact you.

9 Be Happy If you run into him, just act cool and put on your happy face.

His work then took him away to another part of the country, of course being young still all my friends were going out in the evenings and I was staying home waiting for the phone calls, I mean we did not have Internet in those days otherwise we would never of split up I dont think, any way eventually I couldn't handle a long distance relationship any more; so I ended it, stupidly so.

I have hung out with them in groups and double dates just to get them moving on and having fun! Nothing can happen now, but if it could, I would take my son and her kids and I would love to raise them together, all 3 kids with her.